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scoupe42 58M  
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7/9/2021 8:56 pm

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7/23/2021 6:38 am

Age, does it matter?

I was watch TV and the had something on Tina Turner, she married to a man 30 years younger. They been married since 2013, still together and happy. Dick Van Dyke been married to his last wife since 2012. His wife is 46 years younger than him! Tina is going to be 82 this year and Dick Van Dyke would be 96 this year in December. But their mates are still with them. One thing about Tina and Dick, they both rich! Money, Money, Money and have lots of paper! Rich is something, I'm not. Like Tina said in one of her songs.

"What love got to do with it"! Maybe it not Money, or it could be love? I guess when I was 39 this was a magical age. I was 39, I pick up a lady I met on a date site, she was 30 and when I picked her up, she brought her younger sister. her younger sister was watching me, and smiling, I thought maybe I had something on my face. if I didn't know better, it seem like the younger sister was into me. I said to myself "No way"! For her younger sister was only 22 years old, she was a pretty Seniorita.

I was massaging the older sister, one thing lead to another and we when to my room and had sex. They younger sister seem so sad when we both came back in the living room. I took them home, the next day, the younger sister, called me, and said. that she like me and wondering if I be interested in starting a relationship. I said, your 22 and I'm 39, she said, she didn't care. At first, I was thinking she wanted a Suggardaddy! I told he i'm broke! She said, "I know that!" "By the car you drive and where you live, I know you don't have any Money.

I like you for you! I believed her! But I let her go. I also fiqured a younger woman would dump me for a younger man, also what if I can satify them or if I bore them? Now, approaching my senior years, women my age want to travel, I'm still broke. I'm not financially secure. I messed up, been two decades since someone who really cared, So if I had a do over, should I had gotten with that young senorita? My question for you. If both people are of age and there is feeling amonst both. My question is "Age, does it matter?










BiSussi 60F
955 posts
7/28/2021 4:56 am

How could you????
My boyfriends are all about 20, it is heaven on earth!!!
Age doesn't matter, if you care, love and they love you.
LOVE is not about money, it is much more


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scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/23/2021 6:38 am

    Quoting CL_Love:
    I think it depends on the type of relationship. For a mostly "just sex" relationship, I don't think it matters as much. I was with a partner 15 years younger than me this weekend and he STILL couldn't keep up with me (though better than most men my age - at least he could stay rock hard with condom on). But for a committed relationship, I personally feel like being closer in age is wise. I think we all go through various phases of life and while there is less difference between people when one is say 30 and one is 45, you get "out of phase" when one is 50 and one is 65 just as you would if one is 20 and one is 35. The things you want out of life and the things you want to do with your life change so much at certain stages that I think 22 and 39 might have been a lot of fun for a short period of time, but not long term. Just my two cents.
I appreciate you! I love when you visit, you have some damn good points, I liked what you say, love the awesome feedback!


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/23/2021 6:36 am

    Quoting kingklover:
    You Could have to experience what it would be like and you would have validated you suspicions as to age and relations. I'm 32 old women I come across are curious and above meaning dont care for age. Most of the time we all want things that someone may be capable of .

    Can you love that person, can you support that person, can satisfy that person, and can you be your entire self with said person. Non of which requires a serious relationship although a true and genuine interest should be in place.

    Age restrictions is a Societal concept to maintain a status quo for a few that want to have the opportunity to take away your chance.

    Now this is a strong disclaimer and during these time i feel i must state this and its not to bring down the energy but this site is in the internet so......

    "PEDOPHILE IS UNACCEPTABLE IN THIS TOPIC"
    Not state you were but there are lurker *shrug and sits don*
Morning, thanks for viewing and I love the feedback. Thanks!


CL_Love 48M/47F
228 posts
7/20/2021 7:52 am

I think it depends on the type of relationship. For a mostly "just sex" relationship, I don't think it matters as much. I was with a partner 15 years younger than me this weekend and he STILL couldn't keep up with me (though better than most men my age - at least he could stay rock hard with condom on). But for a committed relationship, I personally feel like being closer in age is wise. I think we all go through various phases of life and while there is less difference between people when one is say 30 and one is 45, you get "out of phase" when one is 50 and one is 65 just as you would if one is 20 and one is 35. The things you want out of life and the things you want to do with your life change so much at certain stages that I think 22 and 39 might have been a lot of fun for a short period of time, but not long term. Just my two cents.


kingklover 32M  
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7/19/2021 3:13 pm

You Could have to experience what it would be like and you would have validated you suspicions as to age and relations. I'm 32 old women I come across are curious and above meaning dont care for age. Most of the time we all want things that someone may be capable of .

Can you love that person, can you support that person, can satisfy that person, and can you be your entire self with said person. Non of which requires a serious relationship although a true and genuine interest should be in place.

Age restrictions is a Societal concept to maintain a status quo for a few that want to have the opportunity to take away your chance.

Now this is a strong disclaimer and during these time i feel i must state this and its not to bring down the energy but this site is in the internet so......

"PEDOPHILE IS UNACCEPTABLE IN THIS TOPIC"
Not state you were but there are lurker *shrug and sits don*


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/11/2021 2:39 pm

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Age is just a number for the most part. Older doesn't bother me. Younger, like my kids age ... That bothers me a lot!
Hi my friend, also if their feeling there on both parts. I knew a 64 year old and a 31, but he was a SugarDaddy and if he's ok with it, then it's ok


PonyGirl1965 55F
17158 posts
7/11/2021 12:32 am

Age is just a number for the most part. Older doesn't bother me. Younger, like my kids age ... That bothers me a lot!


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 2:22 pm

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    " younger one would like my humor, while some might try to use the hell out of me! "
    and that is what wisdom is supposed to be. the ability to distinguish the ones that want you for your wit, from the ones that want you for your wallet
    bonne vie
Preach on my brotha! Wise words!


nsnguystill 69M
264 posts
7/10/2021 1:10 pm

" younger one would like my humor, while some might try to use the hell out of me! "
and that is what wisdom is supposed to be. the ability to distinguish the ones that want you for your wit, from the ones that want you for your wallet
bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 11:31 am

    Quoting japaneseass:
    Age really doesn't matter to me...as long as we have something in common and they know how to act when we are together...

    Now I am at age 53...almost 54...I don't mind younger males, and I do have something in common as far as the entertainment goes, like tastes in gaming and music goes, but their interests are very limited, and won't go deep...and seems like younger males don't know how to act in treating female...(not limited to sex, but in general...) So I'm more interested in the same age group now...
My friend, I wish we lived closer! I would love to have you as someone I was seeing. Thx for viewing and feedback


scoupe42 58M  
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7/10/2021 11:30 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    No age doesn't matter but in saying that I have to say they have to be older than my youngest son. As many don't realize that age is just a number and you can have a lot in common no matter how much older or younger a person is.

    I hope you enjoy your weekend my friend
Hi my friend, as always thanks for the feedback, have a good weekend!


japaneseass 53F
50178 posts
7/10/2021 9:26 am

Age really doesn't matter to me...as long as we have something in common and they know how to act when we are together...

Now I am at age 53...almost 54...I don't mind younger males, and I do have something in common as far as the entertainment goes, like tastes in gaming and music goes, but their interests are very limited, and won't go deep...and seems like younger males don't know how to act in treating female...(not limited to sex, but in general...) So I'm more interested in the same age group now...


Tmptrzz 58F
99897 posts
7/10/2021 7:50 am

No age doesn't matter but in saying that I have to say they have to be older than my youngest son. As many don't realize that age is just a number and you can have a lot in common no matter how much older or younger a person is.

I hope you enjoy your weekend my friend


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 6:12 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    There was 14 years between my parents - they made it work for 25 years before leukaemia took my dad.

    I was in an online relationship with someone who was 15 years younger than me (like father, like son!). Sadly we were never able to meet up but we didn't foresee any age difference issues.

    Some say "age is just a number", an age difference in a relationship can be no hindrance for some but it can cause issues for others.
My dad was 11 years older than my mom, but he had to put in a ot of effort! Age is a number, but it would be awesome to connect with someone my age group that's my problem. Women my age group, lot of them financially secure, love to travel to exotic places! I met women ,my age one was a Lawyer and the other was a Judge. I'm living off my retirement and make a few $$$ here and there. I'm just not in their league!


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 6:07 am

To many it does, people feel like they connect better with someone their own age. Thanks for feedback


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 6:05 am

    Quoting NEIGuy:
    The short answer is, it shouldn't, but it does. I get it--when I was in my forties, I wasn't even sure people in their late 50s/60s even had or wanted sex (spoiler--they do; some of them, anyway)
Now being and older man, heavier, losing hair, I probably can't get a uch younger woman now. My thing, is women my age or older finds me a bore. Thanks for the feedback, I just got to find someone my age with a strong sex drive!


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 6:01 am

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    it's just like they say it is better to try and lose, than forever wonder what if!
    does age matter? it most certainly does but
    butt
    many have set their path in life, only to be derailed by reality!
Something I guess we have to try, as I got older, women in my age group don't find me appealing at all. They younger one would like my humor, while some might try to use the hell out of me! Thanks for the feedback


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 5:58 am

    Quoting agelesssexylegs:
    Oh for many years when young i was attracted to the silver foxes,then when hitting menopause and home life not as i liked it to be i admit i strayed and became involved with a lot of young men,a major ego boost and never looked back,some were just after a sugar mummy but there were a few who wanted something more serious
When girl want a Suggardaddy, I guess guys need their Suggarmomies, I guess it depends on the conncertion, for you had someconection with some younger guys!


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 5:55 am

    Quoting partygald:
    If it matters to either one of you, then it matters
    Seems like a cop out answer, but its true. Only when I got older then I've started seeing people closer to my age. Granted, this was all done with full knowledge and intent of not having anything too serious. I've always had thing for older guys. The husband is close to 20 years older. Ironically, the bf is 25 years younger. I also know that this isn't a typical situation. But still.
    If you mind, then it matters.
Hi my friend, thanks for sharing and the awesome feedback. I like what you said in the end! Have a good day.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 5:53 am

    Quoting author51:
    Age for me is a deal breaker and am not comfortable with one who is too young, nor too old.I used to say 35 and up for me and no more than 5 years older, but now it is 40 and up . I do not need a too young for me man to have sex with nor a man who is too old even for myself..To each their own though my friend..xoxo
At one times, I had a 5 and 3 things going, they can be 5 years younger, or 3 years older. When it comes down to it you both got to connect! Lately there not too many I connect with! Thanks for the feedback.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 5:50 am

    Quoting wanttodoall2:
    Scoupe I am a few years older than you. I was married once to a woman 13 years my junior and all was good for quite a few years. Now at this age the younger women don't seem to be interested, I wish some would be, lol. But to answer your question in my opinion if both parties are in to each other age is not a big deal. Now one has to be cautious because we all know to well that there's some out for sugardaddies
It did work out for you, for atleast a while. Funny things lately, I had a yong beautiful girl ask he to be her Suggardaddy! Hell, I can't afford to pay my own bills! Thanks for the feedback


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/10/2021 5:47 am

    Quoting Idowhatyousay200:
    Age absolutely matters, but only to an extent. A 45 year old man has nothing uncommon with a girl in her 20's. As far as sex goes if everyone is age appropriate and consenting, then its just a physical thing. Love is more complicated there is a huge difference in 40 dating 20 and 60 dating 40.
Thanks for the awesome feedback.


MyBaffies 51M
4778 posts
7/10/2021 4:49 am

There was 14 years between my parents - they made it work for 25 years before leukaemia took my dad.

I was in an online relationship with someone who was 15 years younger than me (like father, like son!). Sadly we were never able to meet up but we didn't foresee any age difference issues.

Some say "age is just a number", an age difference in a relationship can be no hindrance for some but it can cause issues for others.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


Brownie202 64F
2388 posts
7/10/2021 3:20 am

To me it does.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


NEIGuy 61M  
88 posts
7/10/2021 2:06 am

The short answer is, it shouldn't, but it does. I get it--when I was in my forties, I wasn't even sure people in their late 50s/60s even had or wanted sex (spoiler--they do; some of them, anyway)


nsnguystill 69M
264 posts
7/10/2021 1:07 am

it's just like they say it is better to try and lose, than forever wonder what if!
does age matter? it most certainly does but
butt
many have set their path in life, only to be derailed by reality!

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


agelesssexylegs 78F
746 posts
7/10/2021 12:59 am

Oh for many years when young i was attracted to the silver foxes,then when hitting menopause and home life not as i liked it to be i admit i strayed and became involved with a lot of young men,a major ego boost and never looked back,some were just after a sugar mummy but there were a few who wanted something more serious


partygald 38F
1870 posts
7/10/2021 12:58 am

If it matters to either one of you, then it matters
Seems like a cop out answer, but its true. Only when I got older then I've started seeing people closer to my age. Granted, this was all done with full knowledge and intent of not having anything too serious. I've always had thing for older guys. The husband is close to 20 years older. Ironically, the bf is 25 years younger. I also know that this isn't a typical situation. But still.
If you mind, then it matters.


author51 58F
119604 posts
7/9/2021 10:51 pm

Age for me is a deal breaker and am not comfortable with one who is too young, nor too old.I used to say 35 and up for me and no more than 5 years older, but now it is 40 and up . I do not need a too young for me man to have sex with nor a man who is too old even for myself..To each their own though my friend..xoxo


wanttodoall2 62M
390 posts
7/9/2021 10:18 pm

Scoupe I am a few years older than you. I was married once to a woman 13 years my junior and all was good for quite a few years. Now at this age the younger women don't seem to be interested, I wish some would be, lol. But to answer your question in my opinion if both parties are in to each other age is not a big deal. Now one has to be cautious because we all know to well that there's some out for sugardaddies

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Idowhatyousay200 45M
9 posts
7/9/2021 9:56 pm

Age absolutely matters, but only to an extent. A 45 year old man has nothing uncommon with a girl in her 20's. As far as sex goes if everyone is age appropriate and consenting, then its just a physical thing. Love is more complicated there is a huge difference in 40 dating 20 and 60 dating 40.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
7/9/2021 9:01 pm

Age is that a deal breaker?


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