First date  

Roxymiller 48F  
26 posts
8/14/2019 8:04 pm
First date

Generally I won't fuck on a first date, though it has happened. I now have a strict rule not fuck on the first date no matter how horny I am. I feel that first dates are meant dialogue and the opportunity get know another. Curious see how everybody else feels about this.

5728 posts
8/14/2019 8:46 pm

The term 'date' is open to interpretation and recently the subject of heated dialogue in the blogs.

I do agree with your rule as it works for me.

SteveAlready 56M  
12 posts
8/14/2019 9:02 pm

Not sure where this is going?

Heathen_G 60M
7069 posts
8/14/2019 9:35 pm

At your age, of 48, you should be experienced enough to know, within 10 seconds, if you will ever have sex with the man who invited you out to meet him. Knowing that you do want to fuck, but putting it off, accomplishes nothing.

Obviously the less experienced should abide by the "3 strikes" rule.

The inexperienced women need awhile to figure out if they really want to have sex with the guy, they're meeting for the first time. And that's when the "3 strikes" rule comes into play.

Nothing wrong with getting to know him better, but during that process , you're not dating....not yet, if ever.

The "3 strikes" rule is about allowing her 3 chances to hangout with him, one-on-one, so she can make up her mind if she would ever have sex with him, before he lets the woman go [so she doesn't waste his time] , and moving on to meet with another woman.

What you call a time for dialog and getting to know each other, is not dating. If someone you know asks you if you are dating that man, you can't say you are dating him, because essentially you're just hanging out together getting to know if you want to have sex with him.

He , in turn, is not obligated to only go out with you.

wackerpp 48M
127 posts
8/14/2019 10:07 pm

You should do what you feel comfortable with.
And the date should respect that

hbk295 43M
63 posts
8/15/2019 6:01 am

Your life your body your rules and do not worry what anyone else thinks. If anyone does not want to comply with your rule they are not worth it.

OpenmindedinY 45M
117 posts
8/15/2019 4:00 pm

Rules are meant to be broken
every meet, connection, chemistry is always different
every one is a consenting adult

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